Create more love in your life with Coach Aileen Santos
It’s been said that “you cannot build a new house using old bricks,” and that is true.
Click on the video below for the five (5) things YOU need to remember
to help give your new relationship the best chance for growing into a lifelong kind of love. ❤️
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First off, let me try to define the “undefined relationship.”
It’s when you feel like you’re treating each other as more than friends, but neither of you are calling / labeling it “a relationship.”
It’s like an emotional limbo that makes you happy sometimes, but keeps you frustrated / insecure / confused most of the time.
In this video I talk about why this “undefined relationship” happens, and I share with you 3 things you can decide on /and take action on, so you can move forward with your life.
Watch it here:
#FallInLoveFriday
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After a relationship ends, you actually go through 3 stages:
1. The Hurting Stage
Most relationships are “official.” Both partners know yet are in an exclusive relationship with each other, and act accordingly.
Some relationships are not: they’re based on a lot of assumption and expectation.
But when either ends, there is a common experience: the hurt.
Official relationships end with an actual break up. Non official ones can end with a sudden jolt, or a painfully slow fade.
Either way, the hurt you feel gives you a clear message: the other person has decided not to stay in your life.
2. The Decision to Move On
This second stage is what we’ll talk about in this video.
So many people have been asking me recently for advice on “how they can move on,” and this whole video is my answer.
And it’s good that they’re asking.
Because unless they get through this 2nd stage, they cannot reach the 3rd stage, which is…
3. The Healing Stage
Here you rebuild your self esteem. Rediscover who you are without a partner… and even learn to enjoy it again.
Here you learn the lessons of the past, and use those lessons to fuel your new future.
This is when you know you have a future love story to look forward to. And you’re actively co-writing it with God.
Fact is, there are no shortcuts 😦 and the only way to move past it
is to GO THROUGH it.
Still, I hope this #FallInLoveFriday episode helps you with the hard part:
Share this video with your friends too, okay?
❤
So February 14 is coming up, and people want to call it different things.
(And actually, this guy I know also pointed out that, in the Catholic tradition, this same day also happens to be Ash Wednesday this 2018.) ☺
It’s really interesting to see how different people react in different ways to the same day.
What’s even more interesting is that “February 14” is an innocent, unassuming day that has no idea why people are stressing over it more than other days. 😄
This is why I decided to explore this concept a little bit in this video:
Valentine’s Day or Singles Awareness Day?
How about you? What are your plans for February the 14th?
This is actually for anyone who’s ever wondered how they can “move on” from a bad relationship or experience.
Dear hearts, here’s a truth:
Yes, it may be their fault that they hurt you.
But it’s your responsibility
to heal your own heart
and decide to be happy again.
